When i say "make your life easy".....

My theory in life is, when life gives you two choices , no matter how exciting one of them seem, take the one which seems more stable

what i m trying to say is that don't do the guess work of things might be a far more better if you take the choice 2 while the choice 1 is guaranteed stability

and i m the person who says as he does.

so when a coworker came to me today morning asking for advice
the 2 options she kept in front of me were

#1 keep the job here, and have her husband who is unemployed as of this moment get another job to so they can easily pay bills
.
#2 or move back to Kentucky where they originally are from and see if her husband will get the old job he was laid of from

and so when asked i said, take the choice that gives you more stability, cause when u take risks, u have a 50% chance of loosing. and that was the end of that conversation

than came the noon a.k.a. lunch time

and i was like u seem to be stressed out so take a lunch first and when u come back i will take lunch.

she left for a 45 Min's.lunch and wasn't back for 2 1/2 hrs. and so my manager came and she was like how was your lunch? and i was like didn't got one yet....

so my manager asked why? and i said cause Pam's not back yet..
she asked how long its been? and i said just 2 1/2 hrs.

so she calls her and found out that she decided not to come back and move to Kentucky


now i would say this is crazy
since her husband was laid off and he has no guaranteed job in Kentucky
and when back in Kentucky she be looking for a job too since due to her instability CHASE might not hire her back, so she would be looking for a job too

now, my manager asked her and her husband to come to the branch before we open to have a talk, and see whats going down.....

lets say u were in such situation, what would your do?
# 1 ask your spouse to get a job here or
# 2 move to another place and take a risk of loosing both (your and your spouse's) job